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How does one succeed in life?

13.06.2025 04:41

How does one succeed in life?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

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That's it for today.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

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Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

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Living to your full potential is a goal.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Why do people say African Americans act the way they do because they're poor, when the ones with money act the same?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

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Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

What I need from you?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

If my heart stopped beating, would I have enough energy to walk out into the other room 20 ft away before I passed out and died?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

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In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

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Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

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Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Why are Christians quick to say that there are a lot the gay Christians that exist NOW and use that to pretend that Christianity is just loving to gays when the last 40 years of my life they been horrible?

Making more friends is a goal.

Ask yourself:

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

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Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

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The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Does not procrastinate.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Procrastinates a lot.

Do not set goals—set systems.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?